OK then, huge spoiler on all three clues:
SPOILER!1) discovering Annah in temple ruins: there will be a letter (I think it is in the container in her lair)
2) talking to dying Merella
3) discovering Grancor the werewolf in windspear dungeon (the dudes that masquerade as knights in distress)
If you want a lesser spoiler:
SPOILER!if you're still stuck by the time the story plotline with Aran is done in CH3, a druid messenger will appear in the docks and give more specific clues to locate the rest of the stuff. Make sure you discover all clues and proceed through the storyline before sailing away to CH4.