'Tis been a while since I last played this, Freshen an old modder up? Options

[Moongaze]

Indeed, 'tis been a while. I can't remember which version I played way back in the day, but I'm guessing it was either 5.x or 6.x
Regardless, a lot has changed during my absence, what with different fixpacks and of course version changes.

I'm thinking on playing Tortured Souls after I manage to fix up Oulan and have her out in the open. Is there anything I need to be aware of?

-Which fixpack is advised to play Tortured Souls? Baldurdash-WeiDU?
-Sime romances both male and female PC's, no? Are there any other romance requirements?
-Is the Valygar Romance still included?
-I've read Coran and Dynaheir are removed? Will they make a fleshed-out appearance in later versions, or will it be left like this?
-Back in the day, I remember something about Bodhi temporarily joining evil players. Is that still an option, or am I thinking of a different mod?
-Anything particular compatibility issues I should look out for? (I do not intend to install IA this time, nor do I use any "big" mods such as BGT, The Big Picture, etc)
-Anything else that might be important to let a new player know?

Thank you very much,
Moongaze