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[Olbas]

I've encountered a problem while playing IA although I'm not sure it's caused by the mod I was hoping you would be able to help me. Whenever I kick a character out of my party they leave without asking me if they should stay or go and then when I try to talk to them again it says 'X - has nothing to say to you'.
I originally thought this was intentional by IA and so kept on playing. Now I've run into a problem when Jan left for his quest to help a sick girl and when I cured the girl he won't initiate conversation with me to complete the quest and get him back into the party. I read that this is sometimes caused by installing incorrectly and so I re-installed and the problem is gone from my save but only for current party members not ones that already left. I have no save from before Jan left.
Please could you tell me if there is a way to use the console to force the conversation with Jan to occur?

My install order was:

SoA
ToB
Official ToB patch
Baldurdash Fixpack 1.12
Ease of Use
Dungeon Be gone
IA

I am not sure how the problem came up from those.

[Spike]

I've seen his screenshot of the description of the Flame Tongue before you or whoever deleted them and yes its the same inconsistence for me.
Do you recommend to uninstall the Game Text Update? Are there any risks, because i dont want to mess up my game.